Stubbornness: virtue or defect?

Many of us can be stubborn at times, but it is not always easy to understand whether this trait is a virtue or a flaw. Stubbornness can be viewed positively if it is used as perseverance and tenacity to overcome difficulties, and negatively if we insist on repeating the same mistakes.

This mindset can be a resource for achieving our goals, but it must be balanced with the ability to adapt to situations and to know when it is time to let go. In romantic relationships, for example, stubbornness can be helpful if it helps overcome problems, but in some cases, it may be necessary to have the courage to end the relationship for one's personal growth.

An example of resilience is Lil, the protagonist of the book The Heir of Light, a girl who faced a dramatic event and lost everything she had. Despite the difficulties, Lil does not collapse and finds a way to evolve through obstacles. The trilogy The Branches of Time conveys the message that the ability to withstand setbacks and grow through them is the key to thriving in life.

Manipulation is a very important theme. We are often influenced by politics, advertising, media, and other ubiquitous tools. It is essential to fight for our freedom and learn to shape our thoughts, using dialogue, criticism, and the courage to rethink our ideas.

Reality can sometimes be more brutal than fantasy, and it is sometimes difficult to describe it completely and accurately in writing. However, in the books I write, I try my best to also represent the suffering and pain of the modern world.

We must be aware of our emotions and reach such awareness through meditation, reading, walking, etc. However, it is also useful to be strategic and think like chess players, without being completely carried away by emotions.

Education from elementary school is a powerful weapon to combat cultural stereotypes that prevent women from obtaining valuable job positions and asserting their rights. We must fight against gender discrimination, violence against women, abuse, and girls must demand respect in any context. Society becomes poorer if it does not value the female figure.

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Challenge ourselves

Challenging oneself is a fundamental part of individual evolution, as it means overcoming one's fears and limits by testing oneself in new and exciting situations. However, this self-work should never be seen as a solitary endeavor. We can be inspired by others, by their stories of success and failure, and by their experiences of personal growth. Thanks to their example and our tenacity, we can push ourselves to achieve goals that seem beyond our abilities.

In Miril's case, the challenge is to make the right choice in an extreme situation where survival is at stake. Her decision to use telepathy to defend herself against a ferocious animal is courageous and demonstrates her ability to go beyond cultural limits and act instinctively. However, her sacred view of life and respect for every living being remain intact, demonstrating her ability to act ethically and respectfully.

The challenge can take different forms depending on the person and situation. It can be physical, like a marathon runner's race, or mental, like learning something new. To become the person we want to be, we must go beyond what we are.

To overcome ourselves, it is essential to have a clear idea of our goals and priorities. We can start with small steps, like trying a new activity every week or reading a book on a topic that interests us.

It is essential to be open to failures and difficulties, knowing they are part of the growth process. When we encounter obstacles, we must try to understand what prevented us from achieving our goals and find a way to overcome these obstacles. In any case, we must never give up and always take action, even at the cost of making mistakes.

Finally, it is important to find the courage to challenge ourselves and never give up constantly. It can be difficult but only this way we have the chance to discover our true potential and realize our biggest dreams. Life is full of possibilities, and if we are willing to take risks, we can achieve great milestones and become the best version of ourselves.

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